Birthday Gifts For Women

There’s a bit of a strategy when it comes to picking the perfect birthday gifts for a women.

You really have to consider the source of your gift-giving…

• Where is she at right now in her life?
• What age is she, what is she into?
• Is she feeling bloated, fat, unattractive?
• Is she feeling bored, generally dissatisfied?
• Are there any new interests and hobbies she’s expressed interest in lately?

If you’re a guy, you need to site down for a minutes and reflect on some o fthe dropped hints you may have been given, but just didn’t realize were hints, clues, and subtle suggestions.

Women tend to be more subtle than men, and lots of times the men just don’t pick up on the verbal, facial, and body languages clues they’ve been given.

Men are more likely to be direct, need not-so-subtle hints, and just want to know exactly what it is their “woman” wants for a birthday gift, so they can go out and get it and be a hero.

However, you’re not going to cure the whole “Mens are form Mars, Women are From Veus” situation any time soon, so you need to understand that hints and clue were most likely given, and if you pick up on these (men!) then you’ll be doing what you’re expected to to, by realizing the subtle hints and flippant statements were actually somewhat of a directive for you.

As a gift-giver, the thought you put into a gift will far exceed the actual value of the gift, and trust me when I say that a very thoughtful gift does get rewarded in many ways that make men very appreciative too, ahem!

If the womanly object of your birthday gift has lost weight recently then buy her some clothes or a gift certificate to a clothing store, or evne some smaller size dlingerie that she currently has.  That’s empowering and motivational for women.

If she has put on some pounds recently, she does NOT want any clothes, or gym memberships.  OK, that needs to be said, obvious but necessary.  If we gained weight we don’t want to have to visit a clothing store and be reminded that we’re going one size up now, that’s not empowering, flattering, nor conducive to a warm-fuzzy feeling on the birthday!

A facial treatment or day-spa treatment might be a better idea here since it’s more of a superficial feeling beautiful effect.

MEN, if she’s “dragged” you antiquing with her to places, support that interest with some magazine subscriptions, some antique road show dvd sets, or something like that.

Give unique and thoughtful birthday gifts for women…

If there’s something she wants that is intangible, like more time a day of rest, a night out with the girls etc… then be unique here and create a special kind of gift.

Call up her friends behind her back and arrange for a girls-night-out, maybe even schedule a venue or event she can go to, maybe even a Male Revue night (trust me guys get rewarded on those nights!)

Give her a coupon hand-made for a date with you if you’re her special someone.

Give her a coupon for a day of rest coupled with a day-spa treatment and a total house-cleaning done by you, if you’re her special someone, housemate, husbands, partner etc…

These are just some ideas to help you on the right track for thinking thoughtfully about getting the perfect Birthday gifts for women, hope this helps.

WOMEN: Send your men here to this site oyu’r eon right now, Birthday Gifts For Women for gift ideas, and a way to “school” them into tihnking up some thoughtful gift ideas for you

MEN: Use this site as your strategy planner for making her happy on her birthday.  A simple act of sending her to the living room or even out of the house while you do the after-dinner cleanup, dishes, laundry, etc… will have amazing rewards for both of you. Send your buddies here as well so they get “lucky” with their gift ideas, too

One last note about getting birthday gits for women:

If you DO get her an intangible gift like a coupon, you still need to follow up with something material like roses, flowers, gift basket of beauty products etc…